Can't connect to MQTT gateway

[jmmorgan]

My Sensor:
I am trying to get the MQTT gateway to work. I have followed the instruction and I can ping the gateway, but I cannot connect. I know this has been discussed and I search the form, but none of the answers work for me. As the labels on the contact of the W5100 differ from what is on mysensor website, I wanted to check to make sure I was connect everything correct (Mysensor documentation-W5100).

1. GRD=GRD I know this is correct
2. VCC=V+5 This is supposed to be connected to 3.3 v, but it only works when connect to 5V (I assume that is why change the label to (v+5)
3. SCK=SOK???
4. MISO/SO=MI???
5. MOSI/SI=MO??
6. SS/CS=NSS???
   Any help would be appreciated.
   Thanks