You guys had the wrong LED type in the arduino setup:
// NEO_GRB Pixels are wired for GRB bitstream (most NeoPixel products)
// NEO_RGB Pixels are wired for RGB bitstream (v1 FLORA pixels, not v2)
// NEO_RGBW Pixels are wired for RGBW bitstream (NeoPixel RGBW products)
I have the 12V GRB option - one controller connected to 3 leds but it runs smooth as a cat. With RGB and RGBW it doesn't work that well and I see only 3 led chunks. ali express link 12V2811 5m |1 50 leds | White PCB
That is the setup line that works for the WS2811 RGB strip (GRB strip):
Adafruit_NeoPixel strip = Adafruit_NeoPixel(NUM_LEDS, PIN, NEO_GRB + NEO_KHZ800);
I went on this by accident and I thought I should let you know even after 2 years Hope that helps