Welcome to the MySensors community @wiredfrank
The gateway configuration says that you have a rfm69 and a rfm95 radio connected. Is that really the case?
The node is co figured to use a rfm69 with the new driver. The new driver is not compatible with the default driver, so the node should not be able to communicate with the gateway at all.
Note: rfm95 is a LoRa radio, while rfm69 is not.
What do the debug log on the gateway and on the node say?
@skywatch I have never used this feature so I can’t help that much. Based on what I have read in the forums, exactly how you want to use this feature is heavily dependent on the details of each use case so it is impossible to give generic recommendations.
@Sasquatch yes. The keyword to search the forum for is MY_TRANSPORT_WAIT_READY_MS
@Andrzej what does the node's debug output say?
@Stefan_NE set MY_RFM69_NETWORKID (documentation)
Instruction on how to use defines for the rpi gateway:
https://www.mysensors.org/build/raspberry#advanced
So something like
--extra-cxxflags="-DMY_RFM69_NETWORKID=\(110\)
Welcome to the MySensors community @henk-herck
I guess you mean the Raspberry Pi gateway?
https://forum.mysensors.org/topic/11138/mysensors-build-problem-on-ubuntu-20-04-rpi-or-tinker-board/ discusses the same topic.
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Welcome to the community @NeoX Great to hear the library is useful for you.
Could it be that you have another device with same IP or MAC address on the network?
Had a look at our itead dashboard, total number of ordered units until today is:
Sensebender Micro: 3575
Sensebender GW: 587
which, if I remember the figures right, has given the project something in the order of 5330$ (before paypal get their cut).
PayPal has certainly earned their share on mysensors as well, every 3 months we get commissions from the sensebender sales at itead (sensebender micro and gw) the payments are split in two, 50% to the project, and 50% to the creator (me). Both paying fees to PayPal, for receiving the money.
Sensebender sales are also slowly decreasing, but the micro is also 5 years old now. (they stated shipping the first batch end of May 2015). I never thought that we could sell the amount that we did (I'll have to look at the numbers when I'm at my pc tomorrow).. To be updated 
/Thomas