@nicomedia I stumbled on this doing a google search. Just wondering if you are still trying to get your Sonoff's working with your Vera controller? If so, I have written a blog post on the subject. It uses a different firmware called ESP Easy and an HTTP Switch plugin on the Vera rather than MySensors. but it works rather well for me. Here is the link to the blog post:
https://dan.bemowski.info/2017/07/04/using-a-sonoff-with-espeasy-and-vera/
I use this in conjunction with some MySensors wall switches that I built.
https://dan.bemowski.info/2017/06/11/my-start-into-open-source-hardware/